In the United States, women account for 48% of gamers. So unless you're assuming nearly all men who game are incels it's safe to say they're out numbered.
Video game companies aren't putting women in games out of the goodness of their hearts, it simply makes for good business.
It puts women playing candy cruch on their phobe into the same bucket as young men playing video games on the pc. In reality there are very different groups of consumers.
This is trash ordered for political reasons. Not science.