I don't feel that I've been derogatory or acted upset. I've explained that people are not likely to know an inside joke. That's what inside jokes are. And if part of an inside joke involves mocking someone, then you'd certainly hope that the jokester would be confident that the other person was in on the joke. And if it turned out the other person didn't get it, you'd hope that the jokester would apologize and politely explain the joke - not act like everyone else is the problem.
It's great that there are a lot of people that like chess. I assure you though, that by far, the majority of those people do not have any idea about your joke, from a tiny part of the chess community.
Someone took the time to answer your question, then you mocked them. That's derogatory. Then after having it explained what you did wrong, you blame everyone but yourself. Choose your own words more carefully.
Wait, I am sorry... when, after the meme ending did I mock them? Like I said earlier I thought they were playing a bit until they reacted so negatively.
Excellent. It looks like we both explained ourselves. You appear to understand my position, and when I ask for clarification further on yours you tell me that it is my fault. Thanks for pointing out my flaws without clarification.