I've (M) had 2 close (F) friends since almost 10 years ago, and now suddenly they say they don't want to be friends with me anymore.
I've (M) had 2 close (F) friends since almost 10 years ago, and now suddenly they say they don't want to be friends with me anymore.
Title says it, apparently i've been "too much" for them to handle (and i recognize i was quite the bag of rocks in 2021).
But these last two years everything had been just fine (i apologized for my misbehavior, i finally got a job), everything was going great.
But now they suddenly felt they've "changed and matured" (their words, not mine) and that somehow does not allow us to be friends any longer.
Any advice?
I feel i'm losing my head over this.
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I think it says a lot more about them than it does about you. I've had people who I thought were close friends turn out to be fake. It messes with your head and hurts like crazy, but you have to realize that it's about them and not you.