In such case it may be helpful to provide information about every-day shopping-alternatives to the people you know and who are interested in good alternatives :)
Bol sounds familiar to me. We had Bol.de in Germany as good alternative (many?) years ago, but I do not know if it is related with Bol.com. At some point in time Bol.de has been taken over by Thalia and I am since then happy customer with them (and others of course).