Are you kidding? Do you have any idea how many people will throw their hands up and say “well that’s just the way it is” when confronted with any kind of challenge? Have you never heard a single person say “well life’s not fair” when you complain about something obviously broken that benefits them disproportionately?
And conservatives want change, sure, but it’s more the undoing of progress than anything and is essentially trying to getting everything to stand still.
You are totally right, have the better arguments, are rhetorically superior and still get downvoted. But that's just life, human nature so to speak. Nothing can be done about it.